Golden Years, Happier Together….

By Prof P. Archibald Furtado
Bellevision Media Network

13 Nov 2024:

In early 70’s there was a genuine need or demand for youth platforms in the then undivided Diocese of Mangalore. As a result of this requirement the CYM (Catholic Youth Movement) took its birth in almost all parishes one by one, say Sept 1976 Barkur, 4th October, 1980 Milagres Kallianpur, Sastan, Mount Rosary, 30th Sept. 1980, Kemmannu, Thottam and Brahmavar around same years and in a few parishes there existed some youth associations which were renamed as CYM in those days – say, Catholic Youth Organisation – CYO of Katpady and Catholic Youth Association of Udyavar CYA, CYO of Mt Rosary parish and so on….

 

Naturally the middle aged and in some cases elderly felt they were sidelined at that time and to fill the gap a  few were accommodated in ‘Parish Advisory Councils’ and to attract the others who had urge for social and cultural activities felt the CYM is in the limelight and mainstream of Church activities, in later 80’s and 90’s, ‘Catholic Sabha’ units were encouraged for middle aged and in few parishes these organisations too have done and still doing a wonderful job and it still continues.

 

About 4 years ago one my best friend well known for his regular satires and crispy short stories in Uzwad Konkani fortnightly, Mr Joe Quadrus, brought a few of them out in a book form – titled Senior Citizen Club. During that time we discussed about the proposals to plan for such a Club in our Mount Rosary parish. Somehow it didn’t take off due to various causes. One opinion was – ‘Catholic Sabha’ units serve most of the purposes and there is no need of one more in line with it..!

 

Now time has come and a few parishes already started such units. Interestingly our Bishop too is encouraging such platforms to be established in each parish of the Udupi Diocese.

 

 

Not long ago, age 60 the official retirement age was treated as the time to be away from active life… except a few taking the responsibilities as Gurkars and members in Catholic Sabha, Tertiary and St Vincent D Paul Societies, though this number was very insignificant. Thanks to health care and improvement in the standard of living and life, most of the retired friends both men and women, are active and are ready to serve rightly looking for opportunities in the Church, society…

 

The same crop of youth who had tasted the leadership, recognition and exposure to their talents in 70’s and early 80’s, now reached to their ripe age of 60 to 70 and many of them healthy and active in many parishes. No doubt, the idea of ‘Senior Citizen Clubs’ attracted them and sooner than later they will be a reality in middle sized and large parishes, for sure.

 

 

 

Creating a senior citizen club for those 60 years and older in our parish could offer multiple benefits for the community:

 

Promotes Social Engagement

 

Many seniors experience loneliness and isolation, especially if they live alone or have limited family nearby. A club provides a regular opportunity to gather, socialize, and make new friends, helping to combat loneliness.

 

Encourages Physical and Mental Activity

 

Clubs can organize activities like gentle exercise classes, walking groups, or games that promote physical and cognitive health. This is crucial for maintaining mobility and mental sharpness as people age.

 

Provides a Support System

 

Seniors often face unique challenges related to health, finances, and family. A club creates a support network where they can share experiences, offer mutual support, and possibly access resources or advice on these issues.

 

Fosters Intergenerational Connections

 

Senior clubs often host events where they can engage with younger parish members, passing on wisdom and creating a sense of purpose. It also fosters respect and understanding between generations.

 

Promotes Spiritual Growth

 

The club can organize prayer groups, Bible studies, or spiritual talks tailored to the interests and needs of seniors. This can strengthen their faith and sense of community within the parish.

 

Educational Opportunities

 

Seniors can learn about topics like health, technology, or finances, which are particularly beneficial. Inviting guest speakers or organizing workshops could provide valuable knowledge and skills.

 

Encourages Volunteering and Community Service

 

Many seniors have valuable skills and life experience. Through the club, they might have opportunities to contribute by volunteering within the parish or the wider community.

 

Conclusion:

 

Starting such a club can greatly enrich our parish by creating a more inclusive and supportive environment for seniors. Above benefits a few or all  are just theoretical however, what we feel is many who served in Gulf and elsewhere returned to hometown with many plans, aspirations and contentment were a disappointed lot and Senior Citizens Clubs may be a ray of hope to mix and mingle with people of same age group. They have money to spend or spare time to involve and need companions. With proper direction and vision these Clubs are need of the hour and pave way for a different community life.

 

After careful studies, research and obtaining inputs from elders, a proposal may be presented in the parishes where at least 25 to 30 people in the age group of 60 to 75 and above who are interested may voluntarily come forward for their mutual benefit, with no force or compulsion. Let it not become name sake association but with a purpose serve the members…who are young at heart, aging with joy and growing together.

 

A reading room facility, laughter clubs, facilities for simple exercises and a platform for sharing for those willing… definitely a worthy attempt in our Church premises, a place to connect, celebrate and thrive, especially for those, who are not accustomed to Lions, Rotary, Giants etc which serve the same purposes for rich and elite in towns and cities…